Newborn to Toddler: Helping Your Baby Sleep

Apr 23, 2025

Becoming a new parent is such an exciting and emotional journey, but it can also leave you wondering if you’ll ever sleep through the night again—especially when you’re up at 4am with your little one! But don’t worry. Just as you eventually learned to sleep through the night when you were little, your baby will too. Here’s a helpful guide to understanding your baby’s changing sleep patterns, with tips to help you and baby get a good night’s rest.

The early days

There’s nothing like the joy and wonder of watching your newborn sleep. Most of the time they’ll be in active sleep mode, which is characterized by dreaming, twitching, and irregular breathing. This is completely normal. As your baby grows more familiar with their new world, their sleep patterns will become more predictable.
tips to help you and baby get a good night’s rest.

Sleep needs in the first 3 months

Newborns need lots of sleep, about 16 to 18 hours a day, and they will usually wake up every few hours for feedings. During this time, it’s all about creating a calming routine to help them feel safe and secure. Here are a few tips to help:

  • Keep the room where they sleep dark and quiet and put your baby to sleep at the same time each night, to help  signal that it’s time to wind down.
  • Let them sleep in their own safe environment, and not in bed with you.
  • Have a bassinet or cradle ready in case your baby isn’t comfortable sleeping in a crib at first.
  • Always place your baby on their back for every sleep to help reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).

Between 3 to 6 months

Life may become more predictable around the four-month mark. Your little one may nap two or three times during the day, which will help them sleep more consistently at night. Help your baby develop “self-soothing” skills by putting them in the crib when they’re drowsy, but not fully asleep. This will help them learn to fall asleep on their own.

From 7 to 12 months

By now, your baby may sleep through the night, although some will still wake up once or twice to feed. Your baby will need about 12 to 16 hours of total sleep, including nighttime sleep and daytime naps.

  • If your baby cries during the night, give them a little time to see if they can get back to sleep on their own. If the crying continues, comfort them with a gentle touch or soothing lullaby.
  • Once your baby can sit upright or push up on their hands and knees, you should remove mobiles or toy bars within their reach and move the mattress to its lowest level. 

From 12+ months 

Most toddlers sleep between 11 and 14 hours a day, which includes nighttime sleep and two naps or one longer afternoon nap. It is still important for them to nap since this helps promote growth, restoration, and brain development. Napping also gives you a chance to doze along with your little one or catch up on a favourite TV show. These sleepy cues indicate your toddler may need a nap:

  • Lower energy and activity levels (for instance, losing interest in toys).
  • Quieting down and rubbing their eyes.
  • Irritability, whining, or fussiness. 

With love, patience, and good routines, your baby will learn to sleep through the night. Remember that every baby is unique. With each passing day, your little one will find their own sleep rhythm. Consult your healthcare provider if you have any questions about your own or your baby’s sleep patterns. Sweet dreams!



Canadian Paediatric Society, Caring for Kids. Healthy sleep for your baby and child. December 2018. Accessed March 2025. https://caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/healthy-living/healthy_sleep_for_your_baby_and_child 

American Academy of Pediatrics. HealthyChildren.Org. Stages of newborn sleep. September 18, 2013. Accessed March 2025.
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/baby/sleep/Pages/phases-of-sleep.aspx 

Health Canada. Safe sleep for your baby. October 2021. Accessed March 2025. https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/publications/healthy-living/safe-sleep-your-baby-brochure.html